20 | she/her | aggressively uncool

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Anonymous asked:
How exactly does fifty shades reflect badly on the BDSM community?
congenitalprogramming replied:

I can’t believe people are still asking this.

  • romanticization of a maniplulative abuser
  • lack of and/or disposal of the importance of consent
  • taking advantage of someone from a lower socioeconomic class
  • perpetuating the risky behavior of novices hopping into D/s with no idea what it is, which ends up subjecting them to
  1. creepy abusive assholes who prey on naive subs who thing 50 shades represents BDSM (and who are prime victims because they wouldn’t know that they are being taken advantage of since force and possessiveness seem ‘romantic to them’
  2. People running out to get zip ties or rope and shit to tie themselves up with without actually reading up on bondage. Blood clots and injuries ensue, yay
  3. People putting themselves into emotionally intense scenes with no preparation and ending up frightened, confused and uncomfortable.

tl;dr, if you think 50 shades is a good representative of BDSM you are too unprepared and naive to get into BDSM.

teffzuoka:

HEY GUYS! this be teff and i just remade my commissions post. i feel that this one will be more of a transition than a permanent listing, but whatever.

im not going to exhaust myself with a sap story, but damn yo, just like everyone else on this fucking planet I BARELY MAKE ENOUGH TO GET BY so this is the reason why i’m opening these.

i like doing requests, but if i can make some cash, that’ll be pretty great.


INFO THAT I DIDN’T HAVE ROOM FOR 

  • backgrounds = add $5 USD
  • xtra characters = half of original price
    any additional characters after = add $5 USD
  • simple colouring = add $10 USD to either line or sketch price
  • any dialogue will cost $ 5 USD depending on complexity

AND as before, i will draw pretty much anything??? hmu and we can negotiate subjects.

if you guys decide to actually commission me!!! please leave me an ask detailing what you would like for me to do and then afterwards LEAVE ME AN EMAIL @ meat.trucker@gmail.com with references!

I will only accept paypal, with payment upfront!! Please send payment to (meat.trucker@gmail.com)

IF YOU GUYS AREN’T ABLE TO COMMISSION ME DUE TO MONEY PROBLEMS OR IDK MY ART IS HIDEOUS, please help out by spreading the word!!!!

THANKS!